learning to enjoy alcohol and cigarettes
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retold in 3 talks
Žižek asks audiences to recall their first drink or cigarette, it was bitter, horrible, and notes they were taught to enjoy it by imitating peers. This shows transgressions must be learned, not felt spontaneously.
≤2000talks it is told in, per year2026
As told 3
“The first cigarette—you start coughing and so on, it's horrible. This is the crucial lesson: especially transgressions are regulated.”
“you literally have to learn to enjoy as part of the initiatic ritual. I claim it's the same with drinking.”
“I claim it's the same with drinking... if you want pure pleasure, masturbation is much better.”
What it carries
one story, many jobs: the ideas this anecdote is deployed to argue, one tally mark per use (an idea page shows the same relation from the other end, as its shelf of stories)
Its cast and sources
populated by
Hilary Neroni2Samuel Maoz2Ari Folman2Armand-Jean du Plessis, duc de Richelieu2Saint Theresa of Avila Church, New Orleans1Michael Nyman1Leonardo Padura Fuentes2Anwar Congo2
alongside works
Every retelling 3
Žižek asks audiences to recall their first drink or cigarette, it was bitter, horrible, and notes they were taught to enjoy it by imitating peers. This shows transgressions must be learned, not felt spontaneously., illustrating transgressions are regulated,ideology
Nobody enjoys smoking or whisky on first encounter, it requires a transgressive initiatic experience and deliberate learning; even sex at its deepest level is a transgressive duty rather than pure pleasure, proving that transgressive enjoyment is fully rule-governed., illustrating transgression as rule-governed,obscene underside
First-time smokers cough and find it disgusting; first whiskey is bitter. Both must be learned as initiatory rites. Žižek extends this to sex itself: at the deepest level it is a transgressive-enforced duty, not pure pleasure, otherwise masturbation would be preferred., illustrating solicited transgression,enjoyment as duty