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Brief Encounter, the busybody as the big Other

example · film: Brief Encounter · retold in 3 talks

In David Lean's Brief Encounter, an annoying busybody interrupts the lovers' farewell, forcing them to maintain appearances as mere acquaintances. The busybody functions as the big Other, the agency for whom appearances must be kept, and the film explores the tragedy of having no adequate confessor.

2012: 2 talks 2018: 1 talk
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As told 3

“we need for our stability a figure of big other for whom we maintain appearances.”
“We need for our stability a figure of big other for whom we maintain appearances.”
“I made two or even three alternate scenarios of the film and I hope you will agree that I think this is a productive strategy”

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In David Lean's Brief Encounter, an annoying busybody interrupts the lovers' farewell, forcing them to maintain appearances as mere acquaintances. The busybody functions as the big Other, the agency for whom appearances must be kept, and the film explores the tragedy of having no adequate confessor., illustrating the big Other,symbolic order and appearance
In David Lean's film the annoying acquaintance who interrupts the lovers' final meeting embodies the big Other as agency of appearances: for her sake the couple must maintain the fiction that nothing is happening between them., illustrating the big Other,appearance vs reality,symbolic order
Žižek proposes three alternate versions to reveal the necessity of the film's structure: (1) the friend stops talking, the heroine would beg her to continue; (2) Trevor Howard is revealed to be unmarried, his tragic flavor a fabrication; (3) a Bridges of Madison County twist, the husband knew all along but pretended not to out of love., illustrating the example is always richer than what it illustrates,structure of confessional address